Changing Your Realities With Your Thoughts

Many people think some supernatural powers and forces are behind the scene, controlling all the realities of our lives. Nevertheless, from time to time, certain occurrences and realities have played out the exact scripts of our own thoughts (whether unspoken or spoken).

This tells us that there are times we were able to unleash all our innate abilities of creating our desired realities with our thoughts. Sadly, many people have not discovered how to utilize this limitless power and ability made available to us by the God of creation.

Changing Your Realities With Your Thoughts exposes the seven dimensional bodies, and how these bodies influence the realities of our lives. It also reveals the realities of the thought world and the things we can do to fix our thought world in order to create our desired realities of life.

Discover the secrets of changing negative realities; harness the full potentials of the creative power of your thoughts (whether unspoken or spoken); achieve your dreams, goals and aspirations: and create the beautiful realities of life that you have always desired as you feed through the pages of this book.

Unleashing the Power of Thoughts and Words



God has given us the power to change the negative realities of our lives. This power can be unleashed when there is a total agreement between our thoughts and our words. Due to apparent frequent delays of the manifestation of their spoken words, many have not learnt to develop total confidence in the creative power of their thoughts and their words.

This lack of total confidence in their thoughts and their words is what delays and destroys the manifestation process. Since they do not have any confidence in their thoughts and their words; they say one thing with their mouth today; then tomorrow, they say something else that is in total disagreement with what they have said yesterday.

Their thoughts and their words are always at conflict and disagreement. They continue to vacillate and oscillate from the positives to the negatives. They could hardly maintain their positive thoughts and consistently express them in the words that proceed out of their mouths daily. Their thoughts and their words are always unsteady like the waves of the sea.


They could hardly make their thoughts and their words to agree consistently in order to create the right atmosphere for manifestation. They just keep on saying things that continues to annuls their desired thoughts and words. Thus, they could not unleash the amazing power of their thoughts and their words to change the negative realities of their lives.

We could all agree that there were times in our lives that we think about certain things and they happen suddenly. We could all also agree that there were certain things we said in the past that came to pass speedily. Every adult human being can attest to such occurrences. Nevertheless, many wonder why such things do not happen consistently.

When we carefully and critically observe our thoughts and look at our realities, we will realize that such things have been occurring more frequently. We do not notice it because we keep on vacillating and oscillating from the positives to the negatives without noticing that the stronger thought force (spoken or unspoken) has been playing out as the realities of lives.


The power of our thoughts and our words are tied to the agreement between thoughts and words. If you want to change your realities with your thoughts, you must focus on the agreement between your thoughts and your words. You cannot continue to vacillate from the positives to the negatives. Decide what you want and ensure that your thoughts and your words stick to it unwaveringly.

Look away from the delays and focus on the agreement between your thoughts and your words. Our thoughts and our words are the greatest tools that we can use to change the negative realities of our lives. When our thoughts and our words agree, they kindle the necessary emotions to activate the needed active energy for the manifestation.

Nothing delays and destroys the manifestation process of our thoughts and our words more than our lack of total confidence in them. The wavering state of our thoughts and our words delays and destroys the manifestation process. When we learn to build constant agreement between our thoughts and our words, we create the required favourable atmosphere for them to manifest in our lives speedily.


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The Deception of Delays


Delay is the deceptive tool used by the Universe to screen off unserious minds from receiving their desired thoughts and words. The Universe only delivers the wishes of those who are doggedly willing to stick to their desires regardless of delays, not those who continue to vacillate about their desires due to delays.

Delay is the only test that can separate the serious mind from the unserious mind. If everything we desire happens speedily whenever we speak them forth, many will abuse this amazing God-given power. Thus, most times, delays are used to test our ability of sticking with our desires and dreams.

The Universe screens off the unserious mind with the deceptive tool of delay. The serious mind is not perturbed by delays. In the presence of delays, the serious mind just develops an unusual faith and confidence that his desired thought realities will surely manifest at the fullness of time.

The unserious mind continues to waver, wonder and ponder if his spoken words will come to pass or not. He has no form of assurance in his heart that his spoken words and desires will come to pass at the fullness of time. He is like an unlearned child who is still trying things to find out how they work.

Those who know the power of spoken words do not speak and try to see if they will come to pass. They know it will come to pass at the fullness of time. Thus, they speak and maintain their confession, knowing that those things that they have spoken will surely come to pass because death and life are in the power of their tongue.

The serious mind has that assurance that his desired thought realities, which he has spoken forth will surely come to pass. This assurance and confidence is what commands all the forces and powers of the universe to work on his behalf to deliver his desired thought realities, which was expressed by his spoken words.


Many erroneously continue to think that there could be another power outside their thoughts and their words. Well, we need to allow this truth sink and settle in our hearts. Our greatest power comes from the consistency of our unspoken and spoken thoughts.

When you carefully study holy books, and books written by great sages and philosophers, you will realize that they all acknowledge that our unspoken and spoken words are the source of our power. Some speak and it come to pass instantly. Some speak and it come to pass afterwards.

When our confessions are powered with consistency of thoughts and words, nothing can stop them from coming to pass. The greatest secret of Changing Your Realities with Your Thoughts is in the consistency of our thoughts and our words.

Many people usually quit because they think what they are confessing will not come to pass due to the deceptive interference of delay. Most times, the delay of the manifestation of our desired spoken words can be traced to the inconsistencies of our unspoken and spoken thoughts.

When the unspoken thoughts and the spoken thoughts are in total agreement, manifestation is always guaranteed. The agreement between the unspoken and the spoken words brings a deep assurance to our hearts. This assurance provides the favourable atmosphere for our desired spoken words to come to pass at the fullness of time.

The year just began. Most of us have taken time to write down our goals for the year. Delays are inevitable; however, if we can positively respond to every delay with consistency of our thoughts and words; then we will surely achieve every great goal we have written down. Do not allow delays to rob you of your goals. Delays are only testing your ability to persist.

Wishing you an amazing New Year and New Decade.



Water Your Words

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Words are the only seeds we plant with our mouths but we reap them as the realities of our lives. It does not matter if we are serious or not. Whenever words come out of our mouths, seeds have been planted into the future and a sure harvest is on the way.

You may not tell when the harvest of your words will catch up with you. Thus, it is always better to plant the rights words with your mouth so that you will not be caught unawares. Your words today can become your positive reality or misery tomorrow.

Many people easily get tired of planting the right words with their mouths every day. They planted certain kind of seeds with their mouths yesterday, but today, you find them saying things that are contrary to what they said yesterday.

This continuous contradiction may tend to affect the manifestation process. Nevertheless, we need to realize that every word that comes out of our mouths has the capacity of becoming our reality if we can consistently and patiently water it with words that agree with it.

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I listened to a video that talked about two persons. One was a renowned footballer whose father regularly told him that he would end up as a great footballer. The second person, his father told him that he will not amount to anything and would end up in prison.

Each of them were already in the reality prophesied by their fathers. Listening to the both of them speak, I realized that none of them forgot the words of his father. Each of them continued to remember the very words of his father. This remembrance served as the watering of the words spoken to them years ago, and those words caught up with each of them as their reality.

Furthermore, both of them did not only remember the words spoken to them by their fathers, they also saw themselves in those images and realities whenever each of them remembered the words of his father. They had tangible images of those realities in their thought world. They had vivid images in their mind that is one of the reasons they could not forget what had been spoken to them years ago.

To change your realities with your thoughts, you have to water your desired thought reality by just reminding yourself of it every day. As you remind yourself, see yourself in the beautiful images of that reality, and soon, you will see yourself in those realities of life.




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The Sound of the Iron Gong

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The iron gong is a very important musical instrument in the traditional African societies. It is used by town criers whenever they have an important message to disseminate to the people of the land.

It is an instrument of power. It commands silence in all the nooks and crannies of the village whenever it booms into the air. People stop their discussions to listen to the voice of the town crier whenever they hear the sound of the iron gong.

The iron gong is also used to assemble people for different kinds of gatherings, meetings, and even festivals. In the ancient and traditional African societies, the sound of the iron gong is used to indicate the coming of an important message to the people of the land.

The Sound of the Iron Gong is a collection of poems about politics, love, and life. The title of the book is used to indicate the coming of an important message to the people of the land and even beyond. The sound of the iron gong is used to represent the different voices of truth in the land.

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Guard Against the Law of Reversed Effect


We can easily become too attached to results as we journey along the path of changing our realities with our thoughts. We may find ourselves trying to make things happen, or trying to force our desired results to show forth as quickly as possible.

We can also get desperate and would want to cut corners or arm twist certain things to get our desire results. These desperate efforts can turn around to become the major barriers to the manifestation of our desires. We have to be watchful in order to avoid this trap.

Instead of just doing your meditations and affirmations and letting go, you may become so attached to the result you want to see. If you get so attached to the results and work harder to see the results, the Law of Reversed Effort will set in and work against you.

It is better to stay on the lane of doing things that make things happen. Do what you are required and allow the great powers of the Universe to make things happen for you. If you get in the way and try to make things happen, you will end up hindering the manifestation process

It will be very easy for everyone to walk across a strong plank placed on the ground that is one feet wide. If that same strong plank is placed across a pit that is about two feet deep, it will still be easy for everyone to walk across it without falling. At this stage, nobody thinks of falling.

However, if that same plank is placed across the fifth floor of a twin seven storey building, many will fall off walking across that same plank. More people will fall off walking across that same plank placed on the seventh floor. At this stage, many think of falling.


The Law of Reversed Effect means, any conscious, well-driven efforts or attempts to change any subconscious response, get ferociously resisted because that would mean abandoning the “rule” of subconscious learning.

Walking across the plank placed on the ground and across the pit do not require much conscious effort. However, walking across a plank, placed on the fifth and seventh floor of the twin seven storey building, indeed requires a great deal of conscious effort.

When so much effort is exerting in crossing the plank, the journey becomes more difficult because fear had crept in. The people who could walk across to the other building were less conscious of falling and less fearful. The people who could have fallen off were too conscious of falling and very fearful.

The harder you try to make things happen, the more you end up messing up with the manifestation process. Too much attachment to results during meditation and affirmations can open door for fear to creep into your heart.

When you are fighting with fear, you give more power to it, and you will be conquered by your fears. You fears will generate negative emotions and energies that will resist the manifestation process of your desire.

Furthermore, too much effort can sometimes signal the attitude of resistance. Remember, what you resists, persists. Too much effort can produce the opposite result. Just do your daily meditations and affirmations and let go.

Completely focus on your desired thought realities without caring much about when or how it will happen. Do your meditations and affirmations without getting too attached to the results. The results will come when you have prepared the way with your thoughts and affirmations.




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The word “Baby” is a very popular pet name used by almost every couple in our modern society. Apparently, many people are used to calling their spouse “Baby” but they forget to regard them as babies when the need arises.

A baby is someone who is not fully developed physically, mentally or spiritually. Most of the flaws we could note in our spouse are usually associated with either delayed mental or spiritual development.

If this is true, then whenever their weaknesses play out, we should remember that our spouse is still developing either mentally or spiritually. When this becomes our thinking pattern, we will give them the needed time to improve like babies.

Every adult human being tends to act like a baby at one point or the other. No matter how much we try to hide it, our spouse can always spot our childish attitudes in a subtle way. If you can spot those childish attitudes, why not just accept your spouse as a baby. You have a big baby in the house.

A woman once said, “My husband is my first Baby.” One of my friends always said, “My wife is my baby for life.” Both of them are very correct. If you have ever called your spouse “Baby” in the past, it is time to accept and look at him or her as a baby.


Irrespective of how dirty your child may be, when he or she runs towards you with their arms wide open for that welcoming embrace; you won’t deny them because of you clean white clothes. When you regard your spouse as a baby, you can easily deal with his or her flaws and weaknesses.

When you regard your spouse as a baby, you will not take their mistakes too seriously. Just as you feel that your child is still growing and needs more time, you can also tell yourself “My Baby is still growing. She needs more time.” This attitude will save many unnecessary dramas in your house.

Some men cannot just look away from the mistakes of their spouse. They just keep on talking about each of the mistakes of their spouse in such a way that you just wonder if there is any good thing about the man or woman that they have married.

Indeed, there are beautiful things about everyone. The problem is that sometimes, we just found ourselves in relationships with people who do not know how to bring the best out of us. Most of the people we have written off just need the right touch to spark up their beauty.

That man with beards (black or white beards immaterial) is your first baby. That woman who has given birth to four children with you is your first baby. Remember, parents hardly regard their children as adults. Similarly, never regard you wife or husband as an adult. You will become more accommodating and patient.




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Thoughts As Special Garments


Clothes cover our physical mortal body. They protect us from the harsh environments hazards, and bring special beauty to our physical mortal body. In the same way, our thoughts also do the same for us secretly.

Our thought pattern in every area of life functions as a unique clothing. Just like we have different kind of clothes that we put on our physical mortal body, each of our secret thought pattern functions as a unique clothing or garment.

When someone totally believes that he is enjoying good health consistently for life, good health becomes the unseen garment of that person. This unseen garment or clothing of good health formed around the person is what fights against sickness or disease for that person.

When someone completely believes that he is enjoying safety and protection consistently for life, safety and protection becomes the clothing of that person. This garment or clothing of safety and protection formed by his thoughts, protects the person from evil and harm.

When someone believes that he is enjoying riches, wealth and abundance consistently for life; riches, wealth and abundance becomes the unseen garment of that person. This garment or clothing attracts riches, wealth and abundance to the person. This applies to every other area of life.


You may refer to this unseen clothes as the active energy, vibration or force field. Whatever name you give to it, you are correct. However, in this article, we prefer to refer to this phenomenon that surrounds every human being, which is influenced by the continuous activities of our thoughts, as a unique unseen clothing or garment.

The impact of this unseen clothing, garment, or coat plays out in our daily lives when we are exposed to countering realities or circumstances connected to them. When we are exposed to any harsh reality or circumstance that does not agree with the clothe of that area of life, the “thought clothing” of that area of life comes to our rescue.

The protecting influence of each of our “thought clothing” plays out in every area of our physical world. Each of our special “thought clothing” or “thought garment” also attracts the relevant wisdom, knowledge, and understanding that will help us walk in our desired thought reality.

Our thought clothing or thought garment also attracts all the necessary resources and the willing people that will help us walk in our desired thought reality. Additionally, our thought clothing or thought garment also brings beauty to our physical body and our physical world in general.




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BUILDING BETTER RELATIONSHIPS: Sincerely Accept Your Spouse Totally and Completely


Every successful relationship is built on the strong foundation of sincere, total and complete acceptance. That relationship will not last if you do not sincerely accept your spouse or partner completely and totally. If you truly want a successful relationship with your spouse or partner, you have to deliberately discipline your mind to sincerely accept him or her, totally and completely, irrespective of the things you don’t like about him or her.

We can be so narrow minded and selfish some times and we easily forget that our spouse do not also like some things about us. Your spouse may not say anything about them but truly, there are things he or she does not like about you. Maybe, you should answer this question. Do you like everything about you? Don’t pretend! Get a sincere answer! If you are given an opportunity and the unlimited power to do something about you, won’t you change certain things about you?

Indeed, we all, from time to time, find something about us that we do not like because there is this thing about us that always makes us to yearn for something more. You can call it desire, inspire, or aspire. If you do not like everything about you, do you think another person can totally and completely like everything about you? That is impossible, and that is reason it becomes a deliberate thing! Do you still remember that you are not perfect?

You are not the only person dealing with those secret issues of desiring something more. You are not the only one dealing with new fantasies everyday. Your spouse is also dealing with such things. We all are dealing with those things. Nevertheless, if we can only learn to accept our spouse completely and totally, most of the problems in our homes will just melt away like ice under the strong heat of our love.


Our confessions of love will become a mere mockery of the idea of love if we cannot sincerely accept our spouse or partner, completely and totally. Sincere complete and total acceptance is one of the greatest expressions of genuine love. It is something you must be willing to give your spouse or partner daily. It does not end during those short days of wooing or courtship. You have to keep accepting him or her daily for the rest of your life.

You may just wake up from bed this morning and see another thing you don’t like about your spouse or partner. The same thing will happen if you get a new man or woman. Therefore, like a loving father or mother, who opens his or her arms to embrace his or her dirty child, if you continue to sincerely accept your spouse,  soon, you will see great beauty irrespective of the dirt or flaws of your spouse.

The maturity of a man or woman plays out when new desires challenge his or her complete and total acceptance of his or her spouse. These challenges will come everyday but you must rigidly stand your ground. The test is just for few minutes but the victory or defeat speaks for years uncountable. Maturing demands that irrespective of how those funny and fleeting thoughts of new fantasies invade our minds, we must stay true to our earlier complete and total acceptance of our spouse. This is what true love demands.

If you have been reading our articles on Building Better Relationships, please, share them with your spouse or partner, and even with friends. When you are working on yourself, your spouse or partner should be doing the same thing. Building a better relationship requires the two people involved. One person’s effort may not sustain it for too long. You can even read it together with your spouse. You can even discuss on the subject.

We believe you can have that beautiful relationship you desire. We will like to conclude this article by giving you our favourite affirmations for building better relationships. Please, say it to yourself right away and always.

  • I love selflessly and I am selflessly loved in return.
  • I treat my spouse or partner the best way they wish to be treated, and in return, I am treated the best way I wish to be treated.
  • I am in a beautiful relationship with a loving, caring, and amazingly understanding spouse or partner.
  • I am enjoying the amazing relationship I have always desired.
  • My spouse or partner is the greatest gift of Life. 



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